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Mind your business Senti Mentals

Hello Everyone !

This post, if it hurt anyone – i’m sorry !

This is one of a topic i’ve been longing to discuss or to share in a forum. It’s old but from my view im penning.

 

We are here on earth to live one life as we wish, athayum keduka oruthan vantha evlo gaanda irukum “that moment”.

There are set of people and their only job is let you help settle in their way (nan ketana? Moment) but not the way you wanted. Aduthavan vaazhkaila avlo interestu…. Let us see some few major eduthukaatugal on how your Dosa life usually turns out.

Lets assume a boy/girl is not married and age is greater than 27. Ivanga kadamai unarchi pongi ododi vaaruvanga paarunga…. Avanga thanga…

Your family member/uncle/aunt/dads friend/varavan/poravan… Shoots a common question “when is the marriage for you?”
Because they feel you are not happy. Are they astrologists to feel you are happy or not? Aduthavan santhosatha kedukrathula evlo interest ?

Why such pressure ? So many why’s !!!! Is it because they care too much about you? Even your parents least bother about you and hardly notices you. Is that really bothers them?

Assuming one of the reason is because of their son/daughter or their friends or family members got married at right time. So you are next. Yes after 25 its your wedding time. Enathanda unga prachana ? What is their problem truly?

Another reason is… some of my unknown neighbour or friend of same age is married and their son/daughter is on the way. Are they happy? Un kita avan sonana ? They least bother. All they need is you should get married😉

What are your choices? Where is the choice ? Get married !

Imagine that happy moment has happened! Sambavatha nadathitanga dawww!
They are satisfied? NO!!! What’s Next?

Here comes their next goal. They wanted you to become a father because u have to prove you are a guy. Girls should get pregnant . 30 days aaga koodathu kelviya kettu kettu ! Is marriage is only for production purpose?  Husband and wife enna production material ah ?

This question will literally push you into a deep depression. Beleive me. “What is the good news ?”

They wanted you to visit all their family members house and they ask this common question. Guess ?
“Enna saapdringa ma/maapilai?” Phew! Sathiyama illa ! What’s the good news ?

This question will travel with you until you fulfill the purpose of a marriage. (Oru baby)!

This topic is not a serious topic, i feel some of you readers have already come through this stage. If you are not you are about to.

 

nadakum daw !

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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